I tabbed this from her live KISS FM performance which helps with the strumming. 
Some chords are variations but since I'm not that fluent with all my chords and
notes and what not I'm not sure what to name them. 
But I think this is pretty close to the song so if you have any comments or
advice feel free to share. Thanks ;P
Capo on first fret

Chords
    C#/C#m   Ab/Ab    A    F#/F#  E    Ab/Ab7  A7   C7   E2  B?  Emaj7
e|----4--------4------5------2----------4------5-----8------------------|
B|----5--------4------5------2----------4------5-----8------------------|
G|----6--------5------6------3----1-----5------6-----9----9---8----8----|
D|----6--------6------7------4----2-----4------5-----8----7---7----6----|
A|----4--------6------7------4----2-----6------7-----10------------7----|
E|----4--------4------5------2----------4------5-----8------------------|
 (C#/Dbm)   (G#/Ab)  (A)    (F#/Gb)  
e|--------------------------------
B|----5---------------------------
G|----6--------5------6------3----   > she strums these once before
D|----6--------6------7------4----     each original chord
A|-------------6------7------4----
E|--------------------------------




E2          B?           Emaj7
I saw a spider I didn't scream

E2          B?           Emaj7
Cause I can belch The alphabet just double dog dare me

E2          B?           Emaj7
And I chose guitar over ballet

E2          B?           Emaj7
And I take these suckers down because they just get in my way

(C#/Dbm)C#/C#m 	  (G#/Ab)G#/Ab
The way you look at me

(A)A	 (F#/Gb)F#/F#
Is kinda like a little sister

(C#/Dbm)C#/C#m 	  (G#/Ab)G#/Ab
Rubbed by your goodbyes

(A)A	 (F#/Gb)F#/F#
And it leaves me nothing but blisters

E
So I don't want to be
Ab/Ab7
One of the boys
A7
One of the guys
C7
Just give me a chance 
A7
To prove to you tonight
E
I just wanna be
Ab/Ab7
One of the girls
A7
Pretty in pearls
C7	E
Not one of the boys

E2          B?           Emaj7
So over the summer something changed

E2          B?           Emaj7
I started reading 17 and shaving my legs

E2          B?           Emaj7
And I studied Lolita religiously

E2          B?           Emaj7
And I walked right into school and caught you drooling over me

(C#/Dbm)C#/C#m 	  (G#/Ab)G#/Ab
Cause I know what you know

(A)A	  (F#/Gb)F#/F#
But now your gonna have to take a number

C#/Dbm)C#/C#m 	   (G#/Ab)G#/Ab
It's ok maybe one day

(A)A   	 (F#/Gb)F#/F#
But not until I get my diamond ring

E
Cause I don't want to be
Ab/Ab7
One of the boys
A7
One of the guys
C7                       
Just give me a chance 
A7
To prove to you tonight
E
I just wanna be
Ab/Ab7
your homecoming queen
A7
pin-up poster dream
C7            E
Not one of the boys

A7	Ab/Ab7
I wanna be a flower

C#/C#m		F#/F#
Not a dirty weed

A7	Ab/Ab7
And I wanna smell

C#/C#m		F#/F#
Like roses not a baseball team

A7	     Ab/Ab7
And I swear maybe one day

C#/C#m		F#/F#
You're gonna wanna make out

F#/F#
Make out, make out

E
with me

Ab/Ab7 A7 C7 A7 E
(Don't wanna be)

E
So I don't want to be
Ab/Ab7
One of the boys
A7
One of the guys
C7
Just give me a chance 
A7
To prove to you tonight
E
I just wanna be
Ab/Ab7
One of the girls
A7
Pretty in pearls
C7	E
Not one of the boys